love and pain come from the same source

we are often defeated by our own makings and sometimes we have to consider that feelings are a reaction to an event that occurs. whether it is pain or love, they are one in the same. people have a funny way of showing their affections. psychopaths will kill, mentally ill will use addictions and what…

The dumb bitch will f**k up and I will be better

When we know we need to heal but there are barriers that can’t be broken, then what? I have been asking this question since my disaster issue happened at work and now that I am left with all this time on my hands, the rolling ball has stopped spinning. I now know my issues were…

Cut The Middle Man and Create Your Own Moments

A fine line is described as being a point between what we want and what we need. In my definition, they are one and the same because knowing we can get what we want means, it is exactly what we need. Religious people will tell you, “God will only give you what you need” but…