who has had enough.

consider this: although we are all in this crazy pandemic mode, what about our own personal growth? do we suffer because we are in crisis or is it because something is lurking that we can’t seem to let go? good question. as time goes on, life takes different directions and we are bound by our…

thoughts and comments: why they are so important

when someone acknowledges your work, it is really important because it not only makes you feel good but it shows you must be doing something right. we all want to feel good, don’t we? yesterday, i received my first comment ever on this blog and i can say i was really surprised. the words were…

the wheels on the bus

good song but it isn’t the point. the brain is always working on overload and in my head things are pretty busy considering i am a woman and we can multitask anytime and anywhere. at one point, you need to take a break but how? people say things that can sit in the back of…

communication is key to a successful interaction

i keep asking myself why people are so angry and the discovery is more complex than we can imagine. i think in business, relationships, or whatever adventure you are on, it takes much patience to understand the meaning behind people’s reactions. i believe it has alot to do with handing over situations when you, yourself…

how to justify your regret and past mistakes

don’t believe a word your therapist tells you about regret and letting go because i will give you the realistic version. the problem people have been conditioned to believe is that regret is something that will weigh down your healthy lifestyle and fill your mind with inevitable sorrow and pain. the fact is when you…

having a plan

ever make a list and say: “ok, today i am going to do this and that?” then the day comes and you just don’t feel like it. yes. that’s where i am at today. we all know on our days off we feel as though much needs to be accomplished like housework or things you…

the title does not make the man or woman

every once in a while you receive a message that is so profound, you must sit and start writing. it is all about experience, events and people and this morning, my thoughts are like a bolt of lightening. decisions can affect your lifestyle at any moment and when push comes to shove, we truly never…

pushing the limits

when did working so many hours become something necessary to survive? i can’t remember the last time i worked so many hours but this week will be an 8 day stretch. i have not pushed myself this hard since 2018 but my body is certainly feeling the tiredness. mentally i had a little breakdown yesterday,…

people don’t care: why should you

it is and has come to my attention, people are far more concerned with themselves than really caring about what is important: life. sad to say, but i know for a fact that when people say they care, they don’t. the agenda is clear. worry about you and you alone and life will be good.…