human contact

relationships are hard enough but when you finally realize that the one you are in is no longer fulfilling that needed tenderness, then what? i have known for a long time that affection comes in many forms but for someone like me, and i am sure for most, physical contact is so important. the problem…

thoughts and comments: why they are so important

when someone acknowledges your work, it is really important because it not only makes you feel good but it shows you must be doing something right. we all want to feel good, don’t we? yesterday, i received my first comment ever on this blog and i can say i was really surprised. the words were…

strength where does it come from

the trick to understanding ones’ self isn’t about digging deeper but from the experiences we live. people are key in our ability to read our own innovative and unconditional strength. if you were to sit back and think for a moment at all that you have endure in your lifetime, what would that list look…

act like you know nothing and watch what happens

the theory i am setting is that if you know a lot, you are responsible for many things. i think we need to consider the possibility that knowledge isn’t always the best medicine. being smart doesn’t land you the better job or get you the best ratings. i truly believe the less you know, the…

trust issues: is there anything else

don’t you hate it when people assume something is not quite right with you and the first thing they ask is “where is your head at today?” as if. most people have no idea what another person is feeling or experiencing and some will make it their daily ambition just to figure out what the…

what makes you dislike people

i have noticed that even with all the social media funny videos, there are still certain individuals that need a smack across the head. attitude is a word not a full meal deal. i can however understand why there are just people you can’t tolerate. the smallest thing can throw you over the edge ……

i don’t hate rules i hate restrictions

it is time to energize the mind. break free of the chains and live the life i want. what am i waiting for? i can’t even begin to tell you how i got here since i have been blabbing about it for 2 years. it is a low day and i can feel it. hating…

how to be me and accepted

peanut butter is a great thing, isn’t it? i love a nice slice of white bread with peanut butter. i say this because shouldn’t people be able to just say or write how they feel and tell it like it is? what is really hard is expressing the things you really feel and not worry…

pet peeves and the delight of opinions

we are so consumed with being politically correct what happened to being truthful? i think it chose door #99 here we are the bloggers, the writers trying really hard to make a difference and as a friend of mine said, this is our purpose. how important is it very. my disapproval are the long winded…