the title does not make the man or woman

every once in a while you receive a message that is so profound, you must sit and start writing. it is all about experience, events and people and this morning, my thoughts are like a bolt of lightening. decisions can affect your lifestyle at any moment and when push comes to shove, we truly never…

pushing the limits

when did working so many hours become something necessary to survive? i can’t remember the last time i worked so many hours but this week will be an 8 day stretch. i have not pushed myself this hard since 2018 but my body is certainly feeling the tiredness. mentally i had a little breakdown yesterday,…

the ability to listen

i was watching Michelle Obama’s speech today and this women is the most smartest and clear woman i have ever listened too. her words pierced something profound in me. she said: “being president doesn’t change who you are, it reveals who you are.” – Michelle Obama made me really think about the time when i…

When is it Time to Clean Up the List

the creation of a bucket list is to decide what matters and the ambition of making a list all about the things you want to accomplish before you die. how realistic is that. same goes for people who keep a trunk full of things that mean something of importance. we are creatures of survival, keeper…

you never know what a person is feeling

how many of you feel as though life has been revolted? the hard work, the new way of living and especially the struggle has totally taken over. for one moment i wish i could go back and make changes, i am sure most of us think of that every now and then. i am sure…

Regret Should Be Removable

we all have those moments when something happens or decisions are made and let us realize it wasn’t the correct choice. as we grow through life experiences, we sometimes continue on the path of ‘what if’ or ‘what the hell was i thinking’ but then again, how are we suppose to learn if mistakes aren’t…

When People Are no Longer Themselves

Ask yourself: why do people become something they are NOT. We live in a world where fantasy is better than reality and as we try to pull people into our visions, we ourselves forget the true meaning of self discovery. For many years I have seen people change their way of doing things just to…

Constant Battles with Lifestyle Changes

What do we know about anything? That is the question of the day. I am a creature of change, does it mean I am unstable? Not at all. it only means I keep at it until I am convinced something will work. Life is all about change. Advancements, determination to make things right and lead…

How about knowing when and where to change

so here I am thinking it is Friday and I haven’t written a thing all week. what is up with that? I will tell you; life. chaos is never far behind me and it is probably true for most of the population of the world. I think the moons aren’t align properly this week because…