the title does not make the man or woman

every once in a while you receive a message that is so profound, you must sit and start writing. it is all about experience, events and people and this morning, my thoughts are like a bolt of lightening. decisions can affect your lifestyle at any moment and when push comes to shove, we truly never…

people don’t care: why should you

it is and has come to my attention, people are far more concerned with themselves than really caring about what is important: life. sad to say, but i know for a fact that when people say they care, they don’t. the agenda is clear. worry about you and you alone and life will be good.…

the ability to listen

i was watching Michelle Obama’s speech today and this women is the most smartest and clear woman i have ever listened too. her words pierced something profound in me. she said: “being president doesn’t change who you are, it reveals who you are.” – Michelle Obama made me really think about the time when i…

state of mind: do you check-in

we often forget to check-in with ourselves and i believe it is important only because if we can’t understand why we are feeling what we feel, then how do you expect to survive. as life goes on, i feel myself struggling more and more with the idea that nothing gets better. we have seen in…

silence: the art of saying nothing

it has come apparent to me that as much as i would like to express my feelings and thoughts, i should keep silent. it is offending to think that even though i have much to say and things to share, some people would rather i shut up. the thing is it is probably for the…

why ask for advice when you already know the answer

human beings are creator’s of wanting to be accepted. we want people to understand, be compassionate about our feelings and yet when we are faced with truth about all the above, we buckle. going through emotional stress about career, tragic events or any lifestyle choices can be a critical part of growth. when you know…