all we want we can’t have

what do we even know about ourselves? i guess we know what kind of foods we like, what makes us get up every morning, other than responsibilites, the need to pay the bills and taking care of business but the inner self always has one little fault: true happiness. how many of you can honestly…

a very special message to those who listen

what do we even know about our own qualities? we can define our life but what we say or do but can we truly admit the characteristics. today, i find myself thinking about what it is that makes an individual make choices, what drives the ambition and motivation behind our decisions. do we stop and…

having a plan

ever make a list and say: “ok, today i am going to do this and that?” then the day comes and you just don’t feel like it. yes. that’s where i am at today. we all know on our days off we feel as though much needs to be accomplished like housework or things you…

the sacrifices people make

it is that time of year when i must face the aweful fact of putting away summer enjoyment. so many changes in 2020, we can’t even begin to process. the hard part is knowing i will not be able to go south again this winter, nothing to look forward too and finding a way to…

full circle: how are we coping

i don’t get out much but once a week i make a point of going shopping just to see the atmosphere. i can honestly say, people are not happy. no matter what town you reside in, i am sure the same is for everyone. we are all in a circle of chaos and wonder. we…

act like you know nothing and watch what happens

the theory i am setting is that if you know a lot, you are responsible for many things. i think we need to consider the possibility that knowledge isn’t always the best medicine. being smart doesn’t land you the better job or get you the best ratings. i truly believe the less you know, the…

finding the correct path

we all want to be happy in all that we do and when we are feeling as though there is no escape from the bottom and i say that lightly because there are people out there who truly have a need for help, it is hard to be secure with anything or anyone. the other…

we are sinking ships of emotional stress

what can i do for myself today? good question. the answer is _____________. you fill it out. i can’t tell you what is best for you, nor can i tell you how to live your life. only you can decide what is the best road to take when living an unconditional lifestyle. the best scenerio…

what if you want a different life

change is good but what if you can’t or you are stuck. where do we find our peace and dream. whether it is a career, relationship friendships or even self, these fantasies can take forever or not at all and it is without sounding negative but i think we must recognize the ship has sailed.…